Shouting does not make a someone a terrible parent. I bet that most people shout because they are good parents. You see good parents try. They want to do better. They have expectations for their kids. They get frustrated when their children don\u2019t live up to those expectations.<\/p>\n
They are worn down because they work all day to take care of their families. They try hard to make sure that their kids have everything that they need. They feel bad that they can\u2019t do enough, or that they just aren\u2019t enough for their children. So it\u2019s not surprising that we lose it every once in awhile.<\/p>\n
Bad parents don\u2019t feel those things. Bad parents don\u2019t try. Bad parents don\u2019t feel the guilt. They don\u2019t get run down trying to do it all. Because we are good parents, we work so hard and feel so much guilt and frustration that we get overwhelmed frustrated and angry. Good parents feel so many emotions, including anger, and bad parents don\u2019t.<\/p>\n
I Am Permanently Damaging My Children?<\/p>\n
Oh the guilt of shouting can be so heavy. We know it\u2019s not good fun for kids<\/a>, and there are articles after articles online telling us so.<\/p>\n In every healthy relationship there\u2019s a balance between positive moments and negative moments. There have been studies and they show that for every negative moment, we need five positive interactions to keep the relationship healthy and in balance. These studies were done with couples, but have been applied to the parent\/kid relationship as well.<\/p>\n Positive interactions can be small, a smile, a touch, small gestures and fun, free family days out. I bet you do a lot of those small gestures with your kids throughout the day.<\/p>\n We are all going to get angry and do things that we aren\u2019t so proud of, it\u2019s how we make up for those things that count.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Shouting does not make a someone a terrible parent. I bet that most people shout because they are good parents. You see good parents try. They want to do better. They have expectations for their kids. They get frustrated when their children don\u2019t live up to those expectations. They are worn down because they work … Continue reading “Am I A Terrible Parent?”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[87,134,173],"class_list":["post-694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-children","tag-family","tag-parents","tag-relationship"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=694"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":695,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694\/revisions\/695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kiddyzone.co.uk\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}